When a Christian moves into a new town or city, typically one of the first things one does is look for a church. This situation commonly requires attending a number of different churches on Sunday mornings to see if the particular church fits in some way with predetermined criteria for how a church ought to be. Does the preaching proclaim the gospel? How is the music? How friendly are the people? What are the demographics of the church? How is the church involved in the community? What is the history of the denomination or non-denomination?

Given that I am moving to a new city later this year and will have to go through this process of finding a different church home, and given that I am not tied to a particular denomination at this point in time, I thought that I would use this space to examine the criteria of choosing a church. As an upfront admission, this article will read less like a well-thought-out thesis, and more like less-than-coherent question asking. As I’ve explained before in other articles, my experience here at Conciliar Post has probably been more disorienting than orienting, an experience best explained by the old adage, “The more you know, the more you know you don’t know.”

First, for the person who isn’t tied to a denomination whatsoever, an impulse that seems increasingly prevalent among American Christians these days, is it problematic to use the criteria mentioned above to choose a church? Certainly, it seems like churches should encourage teaching that is grounded in scripture, music/liturgy that is both worshipful and artistic, and friendly interactions between church members. It seems to make sense that when visiting a church for potential membership that one ought to see these markers as important. After all, every Sunday for the next number of years will be spent hearing these sermons, worshiping with this style of music, and gathering with these sorts of people. Though, there is certainly the danger that consumerism seeps into our church shopping, creating the need for a perfect product or never deciding on a product at all, rather than binding ourselves to an imperfect and sinful body. On the flipside, it seems equally dangerous to have no criteria whatsoever.

Second, for those that are denominationally focused, though not absolutely committed to a particular denomination (a camp I would place myself in), how much weight should be placed in sticking with that particular denomination one has historically focused on? As someone who has spent his college years bound to the Presbyterian Church in America (PCA), what does that mean for myself weighing the possibilities of attending other Reformed bodies, or of going “high-church” to Anglicanism? It seems that this adds more criteria and specificities to the base-line of word and sacrament mentioned above. Questions that I will wrestle with such as, How liturgical is the Church? How did the denomination historically distinguish itself from other Christians, and are the reasons for which the church split from other churches intellectually satisfying?

Third, for those that are comfortable binding themselves to a particular Christian tradition (perhaps the majority of writers on this website), these sorts of questions of word, sacrament, and community are still pertinent. Certainly, when multiple churches of a particular denomination or tradition exist within the area, one will have to choose which church body is the best fit. Though, when only a single church of that denomination exists in the area, it seems that these questions are still pertinent. What if one has chosen that a particular denomination is the true one (I’m thinking particularly of the Catholics and Orthodox of this blog), and yet the congregation in one’s area cares little for the gospel, the poor, or evangelism. What if the “ancient church” exists in a building within the city limits, the true sacraments are administered, and yet that church does not have a heart, mind, strength, and soul for the Lord? Recent Pew Research data show Catholics and Orthodox to be among the least involved Christians in their local churches, much lower than evangelical Protestants (and, to our collective shame, even lower than Mormons and Jehovah’s Witnesses). I point this out not to disparage these two traditions, certainly this point could apply to any congregation, but to ask whether this consideration overrides others. Might there be pragmatic criteria for one’s spiritual well-being that override the intellectual, Conciliar Post-y questions of historical rootedness, sacramental and liturgical fidelity, and scriptural corroboration?

These questions I certainly am not sure of the answers to, and would love to hear your feedback in the comment section.

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1. Aleksandra Sandstrom and Becka A. Alper, “Church involvement varies widely among U.S. Christians,” Pew Research Center, http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2015/11/16/church-involvement-varies-widely-among-u-s-christians/%5B/wpex%5D

11 responses to “Church Criteria: How Should We Choose the Congregation We Attend?”

  1. Greg Herr Avatar
    Greg Herr

    Augustine on moving/traveling to a new town:

    “[And so, lastly, does the name itself of Catholic, which, not without reason, amid so many heresies,] the Church has thus retained; so that, though all heretics wish to be called Catholics, yet when a stranger asks where the Catholic Church meets, no heretic will venture to point to his own chapel or house.”

    1. George Aldhizer Avatar
      George Aldhizer

      I’m sorry Greg, I’m not understanding the application of the quote. Can you elaborate on Augustine here?

      1. Greg Herr Avatar
        Greg Herr

        Augustine held the conviction that if one were traveling (or
        in this case, seeking a new church), and asked around, one would be directed to
        the Catholic Church, unless one were not seeking the Catholic Church, of
        course.

        The others, from his vantage, were not C[c]atholic.

        Then, as today, orthodoxy could be tough to come by, and not
        assured simply by landing in a community that seemed to meet one’s preferences,
        or that one enjoyed (the criteria for orthodoxy being taken quite seriously [objectively] by
        Augustine, as well as being robustly defended throughout this period in the
        Church’s history).

        So one approach to traveling or moving would be to place oneself
        within the sure walls of the Catholic Church.

        And Augustine’s advice is compelling.

      2. George Aldhizer Avatar
        George Aldhizer

        How does Augustine’s advice apply to my questions? I’m assuming you believe the Roman Catholic church of the 21st century to be the “sure walls” of Augustine’s advice, granting that argument, how would you advise a Catholic to navigate my third set of questions?

      3. Greg Herr Avatar
        Greg Herr

        Terrific question George, thanks for asking.

        I fear my response will be lacking. I hope this isn’t too much of a vector to where we lose the thread—it’s not my intent.

        Yes, the Catholic Church offers “sure walls.”

        My experience echoes (here comes the potential vector) an
        indirect but related response to Chris Casberg some months ago RE the Benedict Option.

        That experience (a hair over 30 years as a papist :> ) is that, despite severe disillusionment, pitfalls and potholes, my own flailing and flaying, parish politics and bad homiletics, liturgical frivolity and liturgical exquisiteness, communal bliss and communal desertification, catechetical poverty and the more important lessons of foxhole survival *provided by those who were catechetically impoverished*, being tossed into the sea to drown by an administratively inept Church and rescued by that same institution, I found and learned a Life Lesson:

        The Catholic Church is greater than I. She is greater than my personal discernment. She is more stout, even when She keels, and keels badly. She is smarter, stronger, wiser, and enduring than I could ever approximate.

        And when I fail and fall, She will succeed and stand. When I wither away, She will be here to carry on.

        I think Augustine knew that.

      4. Benjamin Winter Avatar
        Benjamin Winter

        Without adding or subtracting from what’s been said, I’d encourage the reading of Augustine’s short treatise de utilitate credendi where he lays out the above-mentioned argument about going to a new town and finding the right church!

        http://www.newadvent.org/fathers/1306.htm

      5. Greg Herr Avatar
        Greg Herr

        Benjamin, thank you for that reference. Cracked it today.

        I’m working through this helpful blog post on De utlitate, as well, since Augustine [in DUC] is a bit difficult for me: http://resident-theology.blogspot.com/2009/11/on-co-narrating-search-for-true.html I appreciate Augustine’s gentle approach with his friend, yet not backing away from what he found compelling in his conversion.

      6. Benjamin Winter Avatar
        Benjamin Winter

        Awesome. That blog post looks good. Here’s a little background on the text that I wrote a few years ago for a class:

        De utilitate credendi was written shortly after Augustine completed his journey from Manicheism to the Catholic Church. When he left Carthage, disappointed by the Manichean Faustus, Augustine was certain that he needed to cast off Manicheism, but not certain of how to find the truth. In Rome, he fell in with academic skepticism. He thought that if truth is hidden, so must be the way to truth. Believe it or not, this conviction actually played into his conversion, since the hiddenness of ultimate truth requires the revelation of some divine authority. Impressed by Ambrose, the bishop of Milan, Augustine recognized that he was in over his head and decided to become a catechumen in the Catholic Church–at least until he could be convinced of a way to truth (par. 8, 20). Now he suggests that Honoratus too should follow the path of Catholic teaching which flows from Christ, through the apostles, and will continue through the generations. Honoratus counters that everyone claims hold to the teaching of Christ–implying that there’s nothing unique about the Catholic Church.

        Augustine responds by distinguishing the Catholic Church from the heretics who claim the same truth of Christ. The heretics criticize Catholics for an emphasis on belief over reason. They claim to liberate people from the yoke of belief with a promise of reasoned doctrine. Augustine anticipates that Honoratus will find this argument admirable, but counters that the heretics only *promise* reason without delivering (think of Augustine’s own anticipation to meet Faustus–who would supposedly answer Augustine’s questions about Manicheism–and the subsequent disappointment). Those who makes these promises are simply deceiving people in order to attract more adherents. Having proposed that reason alone cannot reveal a sure way to truth, Augustine states: “There is no right way of entering into the true religion without believing things that all who live rightly and become worthy of it will understand, and see for themselves later on–and without submission to a certain weight of authority.” In other words, faith or belief (practiced in right living and submission to authority) lead to understanding.

        Augustine goes on in the book to suggest that society itself depends on belief. We have to believe people on certain matters, such as the question of who our parents are. Belief is part and parcel to the trust that sustains the social community. Moreover, the very act of seeking of a way to God indicates a belief that there is a God in the first place (see my more-recent article on Conciliar Post: https://prahlowjacob-pvcnh.wpcomstaging.com/christian-traditions/eastern-orthodox/the-natural-desire-to-see-god-2/). It is thus only reasonable to admit that belief precedes understanding. In these two points, I see Augustine’s usual emphasis on faith revealed and practiced in community. Augustine elsewhere argues that the Catholic Church is true because of its wide acceptance and antiquity. This claim, at least in part, depends on filial love engendered by belief, and worked out in the desire to unify society and church. Love and longing for unification is what leads people on the path to truth, and shows forth God’s own greater Love in this world, as a work of this world. Furthermore, the authority of the Church lifts up even those who are not wise with reason (par, 16, 34). Augustine’s egalitarian Christianity is revealed in this: the fact that Christ is available to the most people over the longest period of time. This is the great appeal of Christianity, and a confirmation that the Catholic Church is the true Christian way.

        Some additional quotes:

        • “God … is with those who seek him with care for humanity. There cannot be found any more secure path to heaven than this” (par. 24, p. 135).

        • “…we must hold what we understand as coming from reason, what we believe as coming from authority, and what we are opinionated about as coming from error.” (par. 11, 25; p. 137)

        • “…authority is what saves us… It is only authority that enables the foolish to move quickly to wisdom.” (par 16, 34; p. 144)

        • “Since, therefore, your mind is purified in order for you to see the truth, it is obviously perverse and absurd to want to see the truth in order to purify your mind.” // “Hence authority is there for those who are incapable of gazing on the truth, so that they may become fit to do so by allowing themselves to be purified.” (par 16, 34; p. 144)

        • “To refuse to acknowledge [the Church’s] primacy is assuredly either the height of sacrilege or the height of headstrong arrogance…” because it denies the faith that prepares as a ground for understanding. (p. 144)

        • “…could there be anything more proud and reckless than to refuse to learn about the books of the divine mysteries from their interpreters and then dare to condemn them without knowing anything about them?” (p. 144) Specifically pointed at the Manichean refutation of Catholic embrace of OT. Manicheans rejected OT based on their literal reading of it without acknowledging the Catholic 4-fold scriptural exegesis: historical, etiological, analogical, and allegorical (see intro to book on p. 110).

      7. Greg Herr Avatar
        Greg Herr

        Just outstanding, huge thanks! DUC + blog + your essay = Top Shelf

      8. George Aldhizer Avatar
        George Aldhizer

        Hm. Yeah, so it’s a faithful binding to a body, no matter the body’s pervasive weaknesses. I get that. Do the statistics from Pew Research or the pervasiveness of cafeteria Catholics bother you? I guess the evangelical would intuit that is evidence a Christian ought to look elsewhere for one’s spiritual well-being.

        I guess what you’ve said already is a response to that, and I appreciate hearing that sort of faithfulness, however much the church keels.

      9. Greg Herr Avatar
        Greg Herr

        I suppose there are two ways—at least—to respond. (I’m an addict of those stats, btw. 🙂 ).

        At the level of ‘sociological analytics’, yeah, they bother me (nothing more dangerous than an undergrad in Sosh ;`] ); but at a more existential-slash-historical level, no, not in the least.

        Having been Evangelical for the first half of my life, I do
        understand the intuition, as well as the discernment. And it is entirely reasonable.

        As I thought about your essay and questions more yesterday, I Commented to Self: My personal satisfaction is not what is at stake in my ecclesial life. The Gospel is.

        Taking my place, as insignificant as it is (trust me, it is), to point to Jesus with my body, willingness to commit, and how I integrate myself into the superstructure of the Church, the visible Body of Christ.

        Ultimately, I am a part of the whole: A nut, screw, bolt, or weld, that assists the Body so that others may find a sturdy shelter. Looking for a church is fundamentally not about me, or for me. It’s about Him, what He said, what He established (as compared to what I want, or think “should have been” established), what He is doing at the micro and macro in this world to bring it—us—closer to Himself.

        But your point is well taken, and reasonable. Within each of us, God provides reason and the ability to discern, and that needs to be accomplished together with a community (so our digital community is an extension of that, I suppose 😉 ).

        A parting thought, though, returning to your comment, and I don’t mean sarcasm by this (it comes out of a hard fought, three decade battle
        with myself): Statistics are great, love ‘em. A “visit” to a church is great,
        first impressions can mean a lot.

        But I would invite a somewhat antiquated approach to the Faith: If we think Augustine knew what he was talking about (obviously, I do)—and that the Church was every bit as embattled then as today (it was)—consider thinking in terms of decades, or at least ½ decades.

        I can assure you this: You will never find yourself so enraged as being in the Catholic Church; so uber-arrogant; so humiliated; so elated; overwhelmed; blessed and crushed; meeting so many superficial people with superficial faith while simultaneously being so vastly out of your depth theologically; sweeping beauty mixed with kitsch; biblical illiteracy and the illiterates demonstrating what’s in the Bible; faith that feels like dead bones…until you discover that those are the dead bones of Ancient Christian heroes who, though having died, now cause your flesh to burn with fervor for Christ the Lord.

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