The Insufficiency of Spontaneous Prayer 

“Now if we imagine that we can sustain spontaneous prayer throughout our life, we are in childish delusion.” – Anthony Bloom1

In the Charismatic Tradition there are generally two ways of prayer echoing the words of St. Paul in I Corinthians 14:15: praying with the Spirit and praying with the understanding (or mind). Praying with the Spirit is understood as praying in tongues, or as praying in a private prayer language given upon reception of the Baptism of the Holy Spirit subsequent to the salvation experience. Praying with the understanding is understood as praying with the mind, or as praying in human language(s). In this system there are many different types of prayer: intercessory, faith, agreement—but the method of those types of prayer falls into one of the two mentioned above—Spirit or understanding (though this can be a bit amorphous in practice).  

One method of prayer that was frowned upon, while being instructed on how to pray, was praying prepared or pre-written prayers—unless of course it was the Our Father or St. Paul’s prayers in his Epistles. Even then, the Our Father was taken as more of a prayer guide instead of an actual prayer one should pray. I can still remember my lessons, breaking down the Lord’s prayer line by line as an instruction for how to pray, because to pray it as an actual prayer would be vain repetition, an action performed by rote rather than relationship. In other words we were taught, using the Lord’s prayer as a guideline, to structure spontaneous prayer. This type of spontaneous prayer has a definite structure to it and we were encouraged to follow this general structure in our own prayer life. One of the great ironies was that in following a structure our spontaneous prayers became, in a way, prepared prayers as the patterns we utilized were dependent on knowledge of biblical texts we would use when we prayed. In the Charismatic Tradition, then, the purest form of spontaneous prayer would be praying in tongues. There is no structure, no pattern, and no order as the mind is not engaged since the practice is seen as communicating directly with God.

So what good are spontaneous prayers if spontaneous prayers aren’t actually spontaneous? What does spontaneous prayer even look like? In his book Beginning to Pray, Metropolitan Anthony Bloom writes that spontaneous prayer is only possible in two situations:

“Either at moments when we have become vividly aware of God, when this awareness calls out of us a response of worship, of joy… or when we become aware suddenly of the deathly danger in which we are when we come to God, moments when we suddenly shout from the depths of despair and dereliction.”2

I find it fascinating that he notes that true spontaneous prayer comes either from a response of joy or from the exact opposite, despair. If Metropolitan Anthony is correct then true spontaneous prayer may be something wild and unstructured, something that rises from the deepest place within us as we become aware of God’s presence, his grace, or experience the depths of his love. It also arises from the place where we feel his absence, sense our unworthiness, or the realization that our sinful actions drive us from him. At this point Charismatics would probably say that this is where speaking in tongues comes into play, since speaking in tongues is seen as direct communication with God. Speaking in tongues needs no priming, it has no form to it, it simply arises as needed. But if actual spontaneous prayer functions differently than how speaking in tongues functions, then that means that speaking in tongues cannot be substituted for actual spontaneous prayer. And spontaneous prayer should occur in actual known languages.

At this point Charismatics may appeal to Romans 8:26, where St. Paul speaks of the Spirit groaning within us, but this text says that the Spirit is the one doing the praying—not the person whom the Spirit abides within. In addition to this, the Spirit is doing so with inexpressible groanings, and praying in tongues is not unintelligible speech but a personal prayer language. With this in mind, true spontaneous prayer should be intelligible. And true spontaneous prayer—since it stirred by powerful positive or negative experiences of God’s presence—should lead us to gratitude for his goodness and joyful celebration of life in Christ, or should drive us to our knees in repentance as we seek to be cleansed of wicked in our hearts. We cannot live on those two extremes of prayer, we would burn out, but as we incorporate the expression of spontaneous prayer into a robust prayer rule or personal discipline we may have glimpses of God’s active care and presence in our lives.


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(1) Bloom, Anthony. Beginning to Pray (Mahwah: Paulist Press, 1970),57
(2) Bloom, Anthony. Beginning to Pray (Mahwah: Paulist Press, 1970),56

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  2. Elizabeth Avatar

    Fascinating article! I love Met. Anthony Bloom’s books! His book, Courage to Pray, pretty much upended my life in terms of Church. Anyway, I did not know the language of Pentecostals for what they view prayer as. I am not very familiar with them, but once, when I was still a Protestant, was scared by one who was more that way because he told me (as if I had no choice in the matter) that I was going to start ‘seeing things’… I remember the lamp pole in my room scaring me in the middle of the night. So, I don’t know much beyond that. Your article was helpful to me in understanding what they believe, in terms of prayer, thank you. And of course, I don’t think all people are like that teacher, scaring older teens about things they don’t understand. 🙂

    I think Met. Anthony is right – I find it easier to sustain prayers like “Lord have mercy” or the Jesus prayer (Lord have mercy on me a sinner) or, one of my favourites also, “Lamb of God, Son of the Father, who takes away the sins of the world, have mercy on me.” which is part of a longer ancient prayer (both Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox). Often in life we get very fatigued and doing a simple prayer like this is like a lifeline. It can be hard to constantly ‘think up’ our own prayers.

    And yes, the irony is there, for the churches who do not like ‘written prayers’ that they still have a structure of prayer and of church actually. No one can live in complete lack of structure, chaos is not of God.

    I think there is room for many types of prayer because everyone is so unique. In my case (being E Orthodox), I am more ‘free spirited’ and like to pray ‘spontaneously’ to Christ, His Mother and the Saints. One of my favourite prayers is in Sergei Fudel’s book, Light in Darkness, when he narrates a nun, living in deep poverty, looks at the icon of Christ’s Mother (the nun was running out of basic needed things) and saying to her “Mother, I have no more tea”.

    I know of one Orthodox woman who was counseled by her spiritual father, when she said she had a hard time (She was a mother of young kids) having a set prayer time for written prayers. So she was told ‘just talk to God about everything all day long’ and so she does. I wish I had that constancy in prayer!

    My Husband, when I told him about the comment I am writing, laughed and said “and Mr Husband does not believe in spontaneous prayer at all” … he is much more of the personality of routine, discipline, and sameness – though even he does a type of spontaneous prayer in our shared evening prayers, though in general, this is him, by the book pray the prayers 🙂

    You may like, also, Metropolitan Hilarion Alfeyev’s book, which draws a lot on Met. Anthony Bloom’s writings, but is unique as well. The book is called Prayer: Encounter with the Living God. Met. Hilarion Alfeyev shows how both spontaneous prayer and liturgical (written) prayers both have a place and why. I found this book to be very helpful, gentle and encouraging.

    One a totally different note, 20 years ago I heard author Lee Smith talking about her then new book, Saving Grace, which deals with a certain type of charismatic in the foothills of TN and in North Carolina and I remember how she said that when she was interviewing people, she felt very humbled by the strong faith they had. These people go beyond what you are writing of here and were charismatics who handled snakes and such. Anyway, that to say, I know that all sorts of Christian people can have faith and strong convictions that are guiding them.

    Thanks for the thoughtful essay! I think it is really good to point out to those who are only one side of the equation (this time about the near aversion to written prayers) to see that there is more than what they are doing and that it is important, even vital, to consider!

    1. Mike Landsman Avatar
      Mike Landsman

      The Jesus Prayer and the other one you mentioned are regulars in my devotional practices (more so the Jesus Prayer) and I’m amazed now that when I sit to pray or when I’m in the middle of a stressful situation or wake from a nightmare the Jesus Prayer is usually the first thing on my lips. Another personal favorite of mine is the morning prayer of St. Philaret of Moscow, “O Lord,
 grant that I may meet the coming day in peace…”

      I like what you said about chaos not being of God. Reminds me of the beginning of Genesis and the passages in Job where God is taming the forces of chaos and I like to think church should be a place where structure reflects that idea. Thanks for the book recommendations, I’ll put ‘em in my Amazon wish list. My mother has a prayer life like the woman you mentioned in your comments. She spends hours in prayer, usually in the early morning, and her devotion is a constant source of inspiriation to me (though at this point she may just have a charism of prayer haha). Thanks for the kind words.

      1. Elizabeth Avatar

        Well thanks so much for replying! I get so excited about reading other people’s words on prayer that I just bubble over with words! 🙂 The Jesus Prayer is incredible and something I hope to grow in using; have you read Met. Anthony Bloom’s book _Courage to Pray_? I believe, now what I know a bit more, that his first page or so is written with the understanding of this prayer…very powerful words in my life, that first page.

        Have you read Fredericia Matthewes-Green’s book _The Jesus Prayer: The Ancient Desert Prayer that Tunes the Heart to God_? It’s a very accessible and beautiful book; one that I wish I was even close to practicing, but it teaches so much and shows the beauty of it.

        Your Mother, then, is one of the reasons that our world is not as crazy as it could be. I wish I had her devotion; I am still learning!

        I am a librarian by trade and a nerd by sheer personality, so I love sharing books I have loved and know of; glad you were glad of them also! 🙂

        I love the imagery you are describing about chaos and structure. Yes. This verse came to mind when you wrote that:

        33 For God is not the author of confusion but of peace, as in all the churches of the saints. 1 Corinthians 14:33 NKJV

        Thanks again! I love CP for how we can interact with others and their thoughts; such an enjoyable art that they are promoting!

      2. Mike Landsman Avatar
        Mike Landsman

        I haven’t read Frederica’s book on the Jesus Prayer but I have read her small book The Illumined Heart and liked it a lot. Bought one for my mom and she liked it as well though she’s not a big fan of that type of prayer as she is fairly set in her prayer practice. Many years ago I read The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence and want to re-read it now that I’ve been interacting with Orthodox theology. Thanks for the kind words!

      3. Elizabeth Avatar

        God bless your Mom! 🙂 You know, I am not sure I read the Illumined Heart; I think we own it though, I should look! 🙂 I think you would like the one on the Jesus Prayer. Very strait forward and written for those who don’t know of it or want to know more… lots of neat history about it and practical advice also. Quite lovely.

        I have that small book by Br. Lawrence; it’s lovely. Orthodox often speaks of this concept, they would call it ‘remembering God’ a lot of the time. I am reading a book (a bit more dense but amazing) by Donald Sheehan (called Grace of Incorruption) that talks about remembering God and how the concept of memory (and what it means) is so important.

        It’s such a blessing to have so many books to guide and bless us! Thank YOU for your kind words!

      4. Micah Carlson Avatar
        Micah Carlson

        I loved “The Practice of the Presence of God”! One of the ways I first got to know my (now) wife was by reading her copy, with all her notes in the margins.

        This reminded me of something I just read in the work titled “Unseen Warfare,” written by Lorenzo Scupoli in Latin, then translated into Greek by Saint Nicodemus of the Holy Mountain, and from the Greek edition into Russian by Saint Theophan the Recluse. The work describes three things needed for “true” or “perfect” prayer: The words (that is, the right words appropriate for speaking to God), the understanding of the mind and the feeling of the heart:

        “Mental or inner prayer is when a man at prayer collects his mind in the heart, and from there sends out his prayer to God, not aloud but in silent words, praising and thanking Him, confessing to Him his sins with contrition and begging for his needs in spiritual and bodily blessings. One should pray not only in words but also in mind, and not only in mind but also in the heart, so that the mind sees and understands clearly what is said in words, and the heart feels what the mind thinks. All this yoked together is real prayer, and if something of this is lacking in prayer, it is either imperfect prayer or not prayer at all.” (page 205)

        Beyond this he describes “prayer of the heart only” in very similar terms to the Apostle’s words you quoted above, saying that it is the Spirit actually praying through you and a complete gift of grace, not a work of man. This, however, is very much above my paygrade and I cannot speak to it. I very well may have already made a theological mistake in this brief explanation…

  3. Matthew Bryan Avatar
    Matthew Bryan

    I’m unclear as to how you intend to benefit the reader. Are you presenting spontaneous prayer (outside of the Metropolitan’s description) as a sin to be repented from? Or do you see spontanteous prayer as having less value to God and/or to the believer than a sincere repetition of someone else’s prayer? If so, then is there a resource which you would recommend to those who want to learn more about the value and practice of repeated prayers?

    1. Mike Landsman Avatar
      Mike Landsman

      No not at all. The point isn’t that spontaneous prayer is a sin (it isn’t) nor that it has less value to God and the believer. Its to highlight that spontaneous prayer within a particular framework wasn’t quite as spontaneous as all that. I like the Metropolitan’s take because it challenged me as to what that type of prayer actually is: something that leads us to needed repentance or an eruption of thankfulness to God for his goodness. That is wonderful and as Christians we may have experiences of both and both can be bright spots in our devotional lives but we shouldn’t depend them solely. A place I often lead people to start from when incorporating structured prayers is the Psalter as well as some of the prayers in the Pauline epistles.

      1. Matthew Bryan Avatar
        Matthew Bryan

        Very good. Thank you, Sir!

      2. Mike Landsman Avatar
        Mike Landsman

        No prob. Thanks for reading!

      3. Elizabeth Avatar

        The Psalter is such a good way to pray! Can you imagine that in high school I thought the Psalms were not something I should read … I was very much a Calvinist-kid, LOVED the book of Romans so much – and it is a wonderful book of course – but somehow I did not understand the Psalms because it was so OTHER in comparison to St. Paul’s letter to the Romans! Thank God I no longer think that about the Psalms. What an incredible prayer book God gave us in the Psalms!!! …. FYI, another book I am in the midst of (don’t know if I mentioned it yet, you are getting the picture that I LOVE reading and books!) is Donald Sheehan’s Grace of Incorruption – he did a translation of the Psalms and part of the book is a series of essays on the Psalms – It’s heady wonderful reading, but dense, something to savour. It’s the sort of book that I find myself often telling people about, I’m, as they would say ‘super geeked about it’ 🙂 Anyway, another book FYI… 🙂

      4. Mike Landsman Avatar
        Mike Landsman

        Part of my routine, that I sometimes am a bit lax in, is praying through one or two Psalms and then reading from Fr. Pat Reardon’s Christ in the Psalms. Really excellent stuff in there.

      5. Elizabeth Avatar

        That’s really nice! I have not read this book yet, I do need to, but my Husband has read this and others by Fr. Patrick Reardon and really enjoyed them! Years ago, I used to read the Psalms through every month with my old Anglican prayer book from when I was 19 (so years before I knew about Orthodoxy and their books!) 🙂 I find my prayer routine changes as my life does, but thank God that God never changes!!!

    2. Micah Carlson Avatar
      Micah Carlson

      I remember awhile back, Timothy Keller said something on Facebook that struck me. I am paraphrasing, but he said something like “Prayer is not about conforming God’s will to mine, but about conforming my will to God’s.” If this is true, then rote prayers written by people considered “Saints” (those who have gone before and proven their love for God and man to the highest degree), make a lot of sense. Consider another quote from Scupoli, et al, “Unseen Warfare”:

      “You know of course the words of prayer—you were taught them from childhood. They are to be found in our prayer-books and the book of church services. They are prayers that poured out of the hearts of saintly men and women when, moved by the Holy Spirit, they expressed before God the desires of their heart. The spirit of prayer is contained in them; so, if you read them as you should, you too will be filled with this spirit, just as the spirit of a writer is communicated to one who reads with full attention.”

      “This study of prayers, when you not only learn the words by heart but also preserve in yourself the thoughts and feelings they contain, will build in you a structure of prayer. This is the best method of forming the habit of proper prayer.” (Pages 207, 208 respectively)

      Of course, this is only meant by way of explaining the positive value of such “rote” prayers, not to the denigration of spontaneous “personal” prayers.

      1. Mike Landsman Avatar
        Mike Landsman

        The more I interact with using prayer books I’m continually amazed how even when I don’t have one on hand- and don’t want to use my phone- how much my prayers have been shaped by them. I regret it took me so long to discover this treasure.

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